The best way to avoid Corpus Christi divorce lawyers is to not get married at all. You think I’m joking, right? Well, laugh all you want but the simple truth is there’s more positive reasons to live in a monogamous partnership than to get married. If you get married, what do you get? A wedding day, a tax break, responsibility for your partner be it financial or emotional, and an anniversary.
What happens if there are problems that cannot be resolved? You try to talk through them, to argue through them, to scream at each other to have the other person hear your side of the story or you could have a mediator in the form of a Psychologist or a professional councilor. So you go to marriage counseling but I can tell you right now, ladies, he isn’t going to change!
Say someone cheats or lies or does something to their spouse that is beyond reproach? Divorce. And that costs money. Along with the divorce lawyers you have to pay for, depending on your state of residence, you also have to pay court fees, the judge, and everything else they can throw at you to just get the act of a divorce, not including spousal support, child support…the list goes on and on!
How do we solve this social dilemma? Don’t get married. Have a commitment ceremony if you want the actual wedding. It will still cost the same, if not less because you won’t need a marriage certificate. You’ll still live together, pay rent or mortgage together, have bills and the same responsibilities together as if you were actually married. And if something comes up that you can’t resolve, you can find your own place and separate your things without the legal mess of a divorce. It’s a win-win situation but good luck trying to convince her of that!