Okay, we know your heart is broken after the tragic break up with the girl of your dreams. Eventhough it is sad, you have to calm yourself and figure out what is the next move when it comes to your love life. If you are still in love with your ex, then you have to try and get her back. If you want to figure out how to get back with your ex soon, you should be able to clearly identify your reasons for wanting the relationship to continue. Do keep in mind that in order to spark those embers with your ex, you need to be accurate in remembering the workings of your relationship. In other words, you need to figure out whether your relationship was just to prove your attractiveness to women or if you were truly a giving partner. If you lean toward the former, you need to focus on changing your wasy before rekindling that flame.